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Let's be happy now!

We should be honest with ourselves; we should admit and accept that which we didn’t do well and right, or the mistakes that we have made in our life. But at the same time we should be equally honest about all the things we have done well and right as it would give strength to overcome whatever adversity we are facing presently. We should be able to embrace and accept and appreciate that all the times we didn’t screw up, all the times we didn’t get it wrong, all the times we didn’t make a mess of something.  

There’s just learning how to live with yourself, learning how to be yourself, learning how to be happy being who you are, what you are, the way you are right now. It’s so important to enjoy the moment. Yes, we can strive for more and be on a path to have more, but we should never be in “deferred gratification” mode where we have the mentality of “well I’m going to be happy later if I work real hard now.” No! Let’s be happy now.

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